I know a young adult female who has been dating a young adult male for over a year. All of a sudden he stopped calling her. She is bewildered that "it" must be over. She had no idea that her relationship was on the brink of collapse. Fortunately, she has many genuine friends who have helped her through this painful time. I sense she wants to call him to find out what happened, but she knows it is best to just leave it alone. Does she give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe something is wrong or something series happened in his life?
When is it time to walk away? When does she stop trying to find out what happened? When does she give up for good?
These are my answers to those questions. First and foremost, her self-respect should be top priority. I believe that if people are meant to be together they will be. It may be today, tomorrow, or someday in the future. Time is our friend. There is no hurry to make life-time commitments. If he's not the one, that's ok. Someone else will be.
So if you have a loved one who isn't giving you what you want or need, or they just stopped calling, don't fret. He might come back some day. Or, he might never come back, but there are many more fish in the sea. You must believe that your time will come. Someone will love you just the way you are. You might have to put yourself out there, and go to places you've never been before. But that's ok, because you are in control of your life. And you can decide who you want to love. You can choose how to live your life. You are the master of your destiny. Don't allow someone else decide your happiness. You are in charge of you. Enjoy it!
When is it time to walk away? When does she stop trying to find out what happened? When does she give up for good?
These are my answers to those questions. First and foremost, her self-respect should be top priority. I believe that if people are meant to be together they will be. It may be today, tomorrow, or someday in the future. Time is our friend. There is no hurry to make life-time commitments. If he's not the one, that's ok. Someone else will be.
So if you have a loved one who isn't giving you what you want or need, or they just stopped calling, don't fret. He might come back some day. Or, he might never come back, but there are many more fish in the sea. You must believe that your time will come. Someone will love you just the way you are. You might have to put yourself out there, and go to places you've never been before. But that's ok, because you are in control of your life. And you can decide who you want to love. You can choose how to live your life. You are the master of your destiny. Don't allow someone else decide your happiness. You are in charge of you. Enjoy it!